forgive&love

what is so hard about forgiving? and what is so hard about loving?

some people just can't forgive..don't know why...must u be like that?yes so what if other's have weaknesses...that gives you the right for hating them and not being good to them...still friends...still see each other everyday...and even was good classmates before...but must things turn out like that?is this the way u reciprocate people's goodness to u?its not like people din say sorry...its not like people din present a solution towards the problem...where in fact the problem don't even lie in them when they say sorry...its with u...& yes u...when problems pop up...a solution is presented...now there are people who is just so men to say that having things to remain this state is better...but y?isn't forgiving and forget and start anew a good way out?

yes this thing is none of our concern...i admit...but don't u all realise that we people around u all have to see things in this bad state everyday?how i hope it would be......how i hope...but u all just don't try...don't even try to change things for the better...will life still be beautiful with this kind of situation around everyday?we being outsider 'mana boleh tahan lagi', don't u know that even when we are not involved in u all's whatever crap shit, we are still affected by it?it just kills someone to be a good person...or to say...people around turn bad...that we have to put up the 'hack'care attitude...and how we wish we could do that...but reality is just in front of our eyes...is ignoring easy?



and next...talk about love...why is love so complicated?sometimes love can be pain, sometimes relieving, sometimes bitter, sometimes sweet, sometimes envy, sometimes jealous...

Actually love is also simple...or more accurate to say..love is simple and complicated...its complicatedly simple and simply complicated...

Question to ponder: Is one's thinking the cause of the decision he makes or is it the other way round?or to say is the decision one makes the cause of how he thinks?

Its a quite presumed common notion to say that one's thinking is the cause of the decision he makes...that basically means the way one thinks affect the decisions he makes...but sometimes it may be the other way round...my opinion is that decisions one makes affects how he thinks...

apply this to the discussion of love...loving is easy...i think its just a decision to love someone forever that sort of thing then you just go forward with the decision you make...with that decision your whole thinking will adapt to that decision...that you will just only love him/her alone and forever...while if you let your thinking control your decision...you are putting yourself into a mine field where anytime the mines may just blow off...its dangerous!this is because one's thinking will change over time, as time goes by, while decisions won't...cox it is something you have agreed to yourself to do...something fixed and deicided...so if u base your own feelings own thinking to love someone, then it may change some time...and that would turn out undesirable...that's why its common to see so many teenagers nowadays change girlfriend/eye candy as fast as baby change their diapers...haish...cox they just think what they think and do what they want all based on their own feelings own thinking...that's the reason...

and some find themselves having bits of their hearts here and there with many people...why so?time for concept change...decide on one...go all out for that if that's what you want and decided on...not based on how u feel...then decide to love here abit, love there abit...i can surmise that people who always say 'got feeling for this and that person that's why love so many people ma', all those are just excuses...and that happens cox u had ur thinking controlling ur decisions...

while some find it amusing and hard to stay faithful to one...easy...just have to change ur concept to decision controlling thinking...when you decide on one...go all out...that's all...

and after saying so much...i hope the people around me with this kind of problem can just read and understand what i have just said...love is actually all just about the concept of ur mind...its either decision...or thinking...and u choose.......



*no matter what it is that i think that i love you or i decide that i love you.......
IJUSTLOVEYOU!